Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Date with second women!

Another truly inspiring story shared by Shaun Gwee through email. I would like to share with everyone as well.

Do we forget or ignore something more important to us? When we are busy to sustain our life?


After get marriaged for twenty-one years, i found an unique way to refresh my love life.

Not long ago, I was date with a lady, and the idea was came from my wife. One day my wife said: I know u love her. I was shocked: The one I love is you! She said: I know, but u love her too.

The lady that my wife asked me to visit was my mother.
She was alone for ninetwen years, however, I was busy with my job and my children, so I was less likely to visit her. The night, i called her, invited her to have a dinner and movie with me at the second day.

' What happen? Are u alright?', she asked. I answered: I was just thinking that if I have chance to date with u alone, it sure be very interesting. After a while, she said: I do.


The Friday after i worked, I fetched her at her home, felt like a little bit nervous.
Because I had never to date with my mom before. When I reached her house, I found that she seems a little bit nervous too. She was in her suite, which she wore during her last wedding anniversary with my dad, waiting me in her house. She made her hair specifically, smiling like an angel.When she get into my car, she proundly said: all my friends were jeolous at me when they know that i'm gonna dating with my son.


We went to a restaurent which was not expensive but with warmth and cozy environment.

My mom hold my hand as she was the wife of president. After seat her, I help her to order her food, Because she only can read the big capital words.


When we were eating, I found she was stare at me,
She smile and said: I remembered that during ur childhood, I always make the order for u. I answered: then now is ur chance to take a rest and let me to serve u. We keep talking during our dinner, sharing about our life and some special things heppening these few years. We talked for very long time until we missed the movie. When I fetched her back to her house, she asked: I'd like to date with u next time, but please let me pay the bill next time. I agreed.


When I back to my home, my wife asked: how's ur date with ur mom?

' It was interesting and fun, over my expectation', I answered.


Few days later, my mom was passed away due to heart failure. The thing happened in an unexpected manner,
I wasn't prepared for it at all. Soon after this, I received a letter, there are a receipt of the restaurent that I dated with my mom, and a message: I already paid the bill for our next date, even though I know I'd probably won't have chance to date with u anymore, I still pay the bill for wo persons: u and ur wife. U will never know how meaningful the date to me, I love U.


At the moment, I realised: we must always spare our precious time to our beloved, and told them u love them before it is too late.
We tend not to tressure them properly when they're alive, but then everything is too late when they are dead.There is nothing more important than ur family, spend more time with them before it is too late.

**Don't make any regret in our life.
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