ICC Appreciation cum Prom Night 2010

This is me during ICC Appreciation cum Prom Night 2010

International Culture Club [ICC] UTP has once again brought surprises to fellow UTPIANS and the commiittee members of ICC. It's a Appreciation Dinner and a Prom Night.... The Prom Night falls on 24th of April 2010, Saturday in Hotel Regency Tower, Ipoh at 7.30pm. That is how I look and dressed in the promp night...Funny eh? I don't know what comment should I give myself. Some say I look cute with it >.<'''. Some say I look like a waiter or worker there lolz...I remembered there was an incident, where the customer of hotel asked me for direction lolz...i answered " I don't know sir, i'm a customer like you too" he smiled and apologized lol!!!!

Leng Lui [3 pretty girls]

Introducing friends, leng zhai and leng lui who attended the Prom Night...Let's introduce the leng lui junoirs first.... from left to right; Jacqueryn Ying, Yee Ling, and Ho Ching. All very pretty and dressed decently that night...All first wore very thick and tall high heels...My god, all was like so tall and i'm afraid to go near them. What to do? who ask me to be so short? lolz...it's all gifted ^^.

The Duo

Two leng zhai on the left is Jacky Tiong and the one the right is William Tee...Both handsome leh? too bad i'm cute, not handsome =p.

B.C.

Next i would like to introduce Honorary Secretary of BCUTP; Chai Yee Ho...A very nice and kind person and not to mention handsome and quite tall too =p. Haha some said we pose very funny in the picture, I don't know how true is that wakakaka....

Peak Event of Prom Night

Ofcourse, we will not miss out this important agenda in promp night! It's dancing with your partner! If you miss this out during the promp night, you ain't enjoying it...Everyone should pull a girl to dance with you =p. Don't be shy to dance! Guys, get your butt up and start invite girls to dance~Don't over force the girl to dance ofcourse. If you haven't try dancing with a partner before, you should try this experience, it's a wonderful experience. Before that, not to forget we had dinner as well. They served Italian food like Lasagna, salad potato + cheese ^^, mushroom soup and breads.All yummy food, and also desert!!!!! CAKES!!! those are my favourite. This event is suitable for 'Prom Starters' which has no experience at all, like me =p. I really enjoyed the night XD. Thank you, Project Director for this event; Vivian Lim

Updated: Crush

Crush by Avalon Chin

What a fool am I,
To know of no other than you,
To fall on, no one but only you,
Without mentioning anything,
my heart pounded strongly,
I can’t take off my eyes from you.

As I see you every time,
You’re looking at someone,
Being so closed with them,
Made me full of jealousy and frust,
I’m still happy and smiled,
Yet you have no idea how I feel now.

As I go on believing my feelings these quiet days,
Thinking of you as a shadow in my life daily,
Though I know I might not be apart in your days,
I'm not even worthy to you at all,
I won’t be in your memories either.
As I look at your pure and gentle smile,
I smiled with my heart melted,
You may create jokes so we laugh together,
But in reality, its impossible to laugh with you…
However, by only looking on you,
My tears started rolling down my cheeks.

Once again crying and missing for you in cold nights,
Like a lonely wolf howling upon the blue core moon,
my lips craving to say “I want to see you”,
the phrase “I love you” is repeating from my lips,
I wish I can forget about wanting to tell you I love you,
But not being able to,
Instead, I can’t say anything more than "I need you".

I’m inconsolable in all these solemn days,
withstanding the pain of my heart,
for being so close to yours daily,
yet still can’t get to your heart and senses,
Loving you is like having a beautiful wound,
I, always love you, and yet still waiting for you,
I’ll be hoping that one day....

NOTE: i've updated the poem, this is because I'm accused to translating half page of the a lyrics... WTF? Harlow?Most ideas are 100% pure.. Only some ideas are picked...So you read ref book and take some idea, and now u're copying the book during the finals ^^ oh yes....>.<'' I hope the one who commented who say that i can't sleep and now back at you!

Moral Story: The 4 Wives‏

Hey guys, i believe some of you have read or heard this story before, anyway i'll just share whatever i've come across which is benefitial to everyone; Enjoy the story below XD

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.

He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.

He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.

Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.

One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!"

Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word.

The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart. The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.

He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.

Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !"

Actually, we all have 4 wives in our lives

a. The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.

b. Our 3rd wife ? Our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.

c. The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.

d. The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material, wealth and sensual pleasure.

Guess what? It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go. Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate and strengthen it now rather than to wait until we're on our deathbed to lament

The End of Old & The Beginning of the New

Dean's List Award 2010 a.k.a Graduation of Foundation!!!

Yes! yes! and yes! I've been waited for this event for a year which is 365 days! I have finally GRADUATED! from Foundation LOL... Well its a happy event for me that day because I finally going to receive my graduation certificate from Rector! Overall performance by all the courses is not bad...Apart from it, i'm kinda sad because the picture above is the last time we will attend Dean's List Award ceremony together because the girl above is from different course. Haiz, the Legendary Trio in Petroleum Engineering will be gone =[. However, this legend will not dissapear from our deep heart's core!! That summarises our Foundation Chapter and begins with a fresh new stories and legends in Undergraduate~

Establishment of Bachelor Club [BC]

My undergraduate begins with a new chapter with a gang of new funky and funny friends...All of us established an unofficial club named Bachelor club, where we gather all the bachelors and have fun all the time in the campus...It's more about togetherness in everything...We all share our tears, joy and memories together...Hehe...i'm currently the Student Advisor of the Club...The one guy who sat on my right side is the president (Chun Hong) , the center showing peace is the vice presidet(ELDEN), the only female is the vice president & president for Bachelorette(Shi Li) and other high committee members. Semangat BC! If the girls don't want you, we want you!

Love

Fellow readers, I believe this is the most common topic of all blogs i suppose. Today we will be focusing in Relationship kind of love not the general ones....Trust me, you may agree or disagree upon all the statements I will be discussing about.

Many people debated about "True Love" / "Perfect Love" required sacrifises like time, money, efforts and etc...That statement is partially true and not always true. Why? Let me expose you a little; there is no such existence called "True Love". Love is not an easy field to be involved in, if you haven't prepared enough NEVER go for it. If you lucky enough, you'll succeed. If vice-versa happened, it will be a disaster. Many people may support my statment of "Love can be a beautiful thing or it can be devastating/ ugly." Never assume your love endings like dramas on VCD, DVD or even story books. It's true that our life is like a drama, but its ur own drama, not COPY others!

Most common questions asked~
1. How do I know i'm ready for love?
2. When only I can confess?
3. Does she has feelings towards you?
4. And etc...

Those are the top 3-4 questions that people frequently ask, ofcourse they are others but it is too "much" until i forgot. I use too much here because i'm always overloaded by all these love questions LOL.... One word of advice, never hesitate in love matters. Just do it, if you wanted to. However, you MUST be responsible towards all of your actions. Besides, there is no fast and slow in relationship, its all about feeling and engagement of both parties' interest.

TAKE NOTE: Love will have a sickness, it's not love sick but it's LOVE DRUNK!!
This "Love Drunk" is a very dangerous sickness. It causes abnormalbilities of human behaviour. You'll get something like this suddenly---> "staring at screen & say tell his friends she very pretty oh!, some may even stare on the pic for hours without feeling bored and may keep mentioning the gals name and etc...Love drunk may also cause immoral issues such as raping, sex before marriage and so on...Always becareful when involve in love. Love posses a great power, either can be used for improvement or can up to the extend of destroying one's future...

The Return of Legend

Dear fellow readers, finally my blog is revived under many circumstances. Just forget about my old blog because I have migrated to this new blog...This time I will update my blog weekly as I will promise you readers that I will try my best to produce nice, interesting and benifitial articles. My new blog name is Emovere Bender which has a significant meanings. Emovere is a Latin word for emotion and the meaning of bender comes from the word bend means flexibility. So it has a definition of Emotion Flexibility. Meanwhile, the picture in header has meaning as well. As dusk [sunset] falls, that wraps up what we did for the day or the lessons we learnt for the day. This blog is mainly more towards to sharing of ideas, concepts and other issues as well. Fellow readers can also suggest some interesting topics or issues so I can discuss it as well. I also offer counselling service for everyone for F.O.C...The handsome guy on above in the picture is me anyway XD.